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What will people think of me?

Dr. Matthew Friedman, Psychiatrist, answers common questions about PTSD.

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People are afraid that others will think less of them

if they acknowledge having a mental problem

such as PTSD, and that is a reality.

I think what you have to do is you have to weigh

your concerns about what other people think

against your concerns about what your life is going to be like.

Are you going to risk losing your marriage because

you're worried about what your neighbor's going to think?

It's a tough decision for some people,

but I think you need to make those decisions.

Same way with your employer.

Frankly, many employers have become very enlightened,

and one of the good things about the wars that we've had

is that the general public has gotten a lot more sophisticated

about PTSD, not only that it may happen

to Veterans of the war but that it's very treatable.

And you may be surprised that your employer

may encourage you to get treatment.

In larger companies employee, assistance programs are there.

There is indeed a concern for people who are still

in the military that their records may be made available

to the command, and that's true.

However, the military has made great efforts to

help people acknowledge their PTSD, to get them treatment --

we've been training a lot of military

psychiatrists and psychologists --

and to reinstate them in their careers.

Quite frankly, more often than not, rather than being

a career ender, getting treatment for PTSD

is really the start of a better career where people

can acknowledge where they've been and can move forward.

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