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It can affect a marriage.
And as much as you don't want to try to let it,
sometimes it creeps in and can certainly make things
harder than they need to be.
I think, more than anything, it's just,
you have to figure out the ways to get around it
because there's always going to be challenges,
but I believe there's always a remedy
and a way around those challenges, too.
Like I said, for us, it was knowing, kind of,
where to draw the line because when she gets upset,
she gets to a certain point where it's hard for her
to control her anger and her emotions.
And she knows, she can feel when she gets to that point,
and so we've created a safe word, in fact,
for her to let me know when she's getting to that point,
and we take a 15- or 20-minute break from our discussion
and then re-visit it once she's feeling better.
Just as an example of something that we do.