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The most peaceful place on earth

Ron Whitcomb thinks the Viet Cong are surrounding his house - 30 years after he comes home. Treatment helps him turn a threatening place into a sanctuary.

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I built my own home.

I built it for me.

This is my place to come and rejuvenate.

It's the most peaceful place I know on Earth.

This is where I get my energy to go out and help other Veterans.

I do a lot of things for other people that I couldn't do before.

The first 18 years I was home, I did fairly well.

And then everything went downhill in a quick fashion.

Everywhere I went was overwhelming.

As soon as I got into a store, post office,

even a friend's home, I had to get out.

I moved 30 times in 18 years.

I would get used to some place and then not like that

people knew my patterns, people knew where I lived, who I was,

and I would get up and move.

My home used to be as difficult to be in as anywhere else.

I would feel like I was in a fish bowl

and in the crosshairs of a sniper.

Intellectually, I knew there was no VC in my yard,

there's no VC snipers in the wood line.

But my emotions told me that it felt like there were,

and I was fearful to go outside in the daylight.

I was fearful to stand at my kitchen sink with a light over me

unless there was a blind and a shade shut.

Nighttime, for me, was sleeping in a recliner,

one or two hours, every other day.

And I slept with a loaded weapon and a survival knife.

A bug on the screen would wake me up in the summer,

a log popping in the wood stove would wake me up in the winter,

so sleep was almost non-existent.

I couldn't get Vietnam out of my mind for a second,

and that's when I sought treatment.

In therapy, I learned to connect my intellect more with my emotions

because there was a total disconnect.

I learned, through going over and over it again in therapy

and to myself at home, to keep reinforcing the fact that I am safe.

I brought the war home inside me, but there aren't VC in my yard.

It took a lot of hard work and a lot of time in therapy,

and through understanding PTSD, I have a great life now.

I'm happy.

I'm not depressed.

I have some anxiety problems, but I have no panic attacks.

I can go and do anything I want, any time I want.

To all my brothers and sister Veterans,

there's hope for you because there's treatment for PTSD.

I had a profound case, and I am doing well.

And it was a lot of work,

but when you start feeling better, you will feel the rewards,

and it just gets easier and easier after that.

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