Transcript
I think when people
feel like they're
the only one who has gone
through a certain experience
or feel too much shame to say
what happened,
you know, we give them space,
we give them space.
And where we start is to say,
you know,
you don't have to tell me
what happened.
Let's talk about how
it's impacted you. Right.
And so I think that
that can be a good place
to start with people
to look at really name
how this has impacted them,
and then eventually,
you know, over time,
they can make a choice
whether they want
to tell us or not.
So I have to earn someone's
trust.
Right.
And and if I'm there and I
listen and they can see that
I don't have a reaction
about other things,
they may be willing to share
the hard piece with me as well.
But they don't have to. Right.
So it's a choice in therapy,
how much you want to disclose.
And you're always in control.
It's a partnership,
but you're always in control
of what and how much you say.