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It just tears your family apart...

Robert Evans, US Army 1967 - 1968, talks about how his PTSD affected his loved ones.

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You start to think of just yourself.

You try to, you isolate yourself, you don't want to be in any,

social settings are difficult

with loved ones, things like that.

It just tears your family apart at some levels.

I've been married three times, and my first wife really took

the brunt of me, so to speak, and she ended up leaving me.

She was in love with me, and she ended up leaving me.

And then the second wife, and then I destroyed that

relationship with the drugs and alcohol.

I put myself through, I went to the VA, finally, to try and

change things and went to Menlo Park here in California,

to drug and rehab, and that didn't work because I ended up

fighting with an intern and a doctor.

So I got out and continued to drink

and destroyed my marriage.

Two children by that marriage, and I get along

real well with them now.

I was a single parent for a while,

and that was extremely difficult.

Relationships with other people at work and things like that,

I was a Good Time Charlie, they knew me as just a

really nice guy, likes to drink and have fun, but deep down

I was a mess, I was just a mess, it was just a cover.

It was the way I stuffed everything inside me.

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