I think they feel very vulnerable...

I think Don was hesitant to get help because

Don's a very independent person.

He's always taking care of himself and his problems.

He never needed anybody.

He was always in control, always could fix anybody's problem,

so I think that he hated the idea

that maybe he needed to go to somebody else for help.

And I think, unfortunately, I think there is a stigma that,

for men, especially, and soldiers, that they feel

it's a weakness to have to go and ask for help.

And I think they feel very vulnerable.

I think they feel like they don't know

what they're walking into or what people are going to say

or what people are going to ask them to do.