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I remember being down in this very, very bad place, and I then turned to the VA.

Richard Braley, US Marine Corps 1967 - 1970, talks about when he knew he needed to get help for PTSD.

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I do remember reaching a point in my life

that I was extremely worried that I might harm myself,

reaching the point where I didn't know where to go.

I felt that everything I did was wrong,

the war in Vietnam was my fault, anyone who died there I might

as well have pulled the trigger, it was my fault.

So therefore, I wasn't worth, probably wasn't worth helping,

because they wouldn't be able to help me.

If they did, they would get screwed up.

If I try to commit suicide, I would screw that up

and just turn myself into a vegetable,

so that wasn't the route for me.

I remember being down in this very, very bad place,

and I then turned to the VA because I felt

that was the only place I could get the help I needed.

So I went to the third floor

which in the Providence is the behavioral section and I went

to the window and just told the clerk at the window,

I showed them my ID and I said, "I need help.

I need to talk to somebody now.

And please, can I see someone?

I don't care who."

And a young lady came out, very, very understanding, very polite,

very open to what I was saying and very happy that I was there,

just made me feel like I had made a right decision

for the first time in many, many years

and she validated that decision.

From there, they brought me over to the PTSD clinic

where I spoke to a clinician.

And she acted the same way, just validated my thoughts,

validated what I was doing and wanted me there,

wanted to help me and wanted to hear what I had to say.

From that day forward, it's only been reassuring connections

that I've made with them.

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