I gave my husband an ultimatum.

I gave my husband an ultimatum, plain and simple.

I said, "You need to get help.

It's not, this isn't working.

You need help,

and we need to find somebody that can help us."

But ultimately, it was his choice to go up there,

but I kind of said, "It's either you get help or I can't

expose our kids to this, I can't expose our son to this.

I can't keep living like this.

I don't want to keep living like this."

We didn't talk for a few days.

We were kind of, one-word answers.

He was a little upset, but ultimately, it was his choice to go,

his choice to go up there, his choice to get help.