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I didn't have control over what he did...I only have control over what I do now.

Michael Corso (Personnelman, US Navy, 1982 - 1986) Mediterranean, North Atlantic, US.

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One of the things that we worked on was

to help me understand

that it wasn't my fault,

and that

I needed to always ask myself,

why do I think that it was my fault?

What did I do to cause it from happening?

And I realized, well, I didn't do anything

to cause it from happening.

I did what I was told.

I went to get that shot
at the Corpsman's office.

And, I know I did what
I was supposed to do,

but I learned that I didn't have control

over what he did,

and that I only have
control over what I do now.

And so I choose now to
always remind myself

if I ever start thinking about it,

that it wasn't my fault,

and that I did try to stop it,

but I just wasn't strong enough I guess.

My therapist has really,

had really helped me through all of that.

And I remember the
first time she's saying,

"Michael, you know that
it wasn't your fault".

And for me to finally admit
that it wasn't my fault really

was a very emotional time for me.

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